The benefits of positive illusions: Idealization and the construction of satisfaction in close relationships.

SL Murray, JG Holmes, DW Griffin - Journal of personality and …, 1996 - psycnet.apa.org
It is proposed that satisfaction is associated with idealistic, rather than realistic, perceptions
of one's partner. To provide baselines for assessing relationship illusions, both members of …

The self-fulfilling nature of positive illusions in romantic relationships: love is not blind, but prescient.

SL Murray, JG Holmes, DW Griffin - Journal of personality and …, 1996 - psycnet.apa.org
It is proposed that satisfying, stable relationships reflect intimates' ability to see imperfect
partners in idealized ways. In this study of long-term benefits (or possible costs) of positive …

Positive illusions in marital relationships: A 13-year longitudinal study

PJE Miller, S Niehuis… - Personality and Social …, 2006 - journals.sagepub.com
This study examined the long-term consequences of idealization in marriage, using both
daily diary and questionnaire data collected from a sample of 168 newlywed couples who …

A leap of faith? Positive illusions in romantic relationships

SL Murray, JG Holmes - Personality and social psychology …, 1997 - journals.sagepub.com
It is proposed that satisfying, stable relationships reflect intimates' ability to see imperfect
relationships in somewhat idealized ways-to make a leap of faith. Both members of dating …

Implicit theories of relationships: Who cares if romantic partners are less than ideal?

CR Knee, A Nanayakkara, NA Vietor… - Personality and …, 2001 - journals.sagepub.com
Perceived discrepancy between one's ideal and actual partner has been shown to predict
relationship satisfaction. The goal of two studies was to examine whether implicit theories of …

Tempting fate or inviting happiness? Unrealistic idealization prevents the decline of marital satisfaction

SL Murray, DW Griffin, JL Derrick… - Psychological …, 2011 - journals.sagepub.com
This article examines whether unrealistically viewing a romantic partner as resembling one's
ideal partner accelerates or slows declines in marital satisfaction among newlyweds. A …

Positive marital illusions: Self-enhancement or relationship enhancement?

BJ Fowers, EM Lyons, KH Montel - Journal of Family Psychology, 1996 - psycnet.apa.org
Positive marital illusions have been found in several research paradigms: in marital
conventionalization scales that have overly positive descriptions; in marital attribution …

Positive illusions about marriage among married and single individuals.

BJ Fowers, E Lyons, KH Montel… - Journal of family …, 2001 - psycnet.apa.org
The common tendency to describe one's marriage in unrealistic terms has been
conceptualized as a positive illusion about marriage. Studies of positive illusions have relied …

The importance of similarity and understanding of partners' marital ideals to relationship satisfaction

LK Acitelli, DA Kenny, D Weiner - Personal relationships, 2001 - Wiley Online Library
This article extends earlier work on the association between relationship partners' similarity
and understanding about marital ideals and relationship satisfaction by controlling for …

Positive illusion in close relationships

JM Martz, J Verette, XB Arriaga, LF Slovik… - Personal …, 1998 - Wiley Online Library
The literature regarding self‐other comparisons suggests that self‐enhancing perceptions
are prevalent, including forms of “illusion” such as excessively positive self‐evaluation …